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"Often the difference between a successful person and a failure is not one has better abilities or ideas, but the courage that one has to bet on one’s ideas, to take a calculated risk - and to act.” Maxwell Maltz There's an old german idiomatic expression which may help many of us cope with certain life situations..."too soon old...too late smart". Forgive me. I don't speak german but this literal translation offers the gist of the sentiment. As you get older you realize that certain situations in life , certain of our major/minor life battles, are not really worth all the effort and fuss we attribute to them. Losing one's temper unexplainably is one type of emotional reaction many folks employ to confront their life crises. Sure we all lose our tempers now and then. It feels so good to vent our spleen....make our inner feelings public.....tell the world we've had enough of all the nonsense. This volcanic release of pent up emotions offers a short term em...

There's no doubt about the fact that being in financial difficulty is one of the most stressful things that you will need to handle in your life. How you handle the stress will determine how well you come out of your financial problems and more often than not how quickly you can turn your life around so that your debts are paid and you don't need to deal with money problems on that scale again. Stress can cause all sorts of problems and in the extreme it can cause you to become depressed and not be able to go about your everyday tasks including your employment that will help you to get out of your financial problems. People all handle stress in different ways but there are certain things that you can do that will ensure your stress levels will be lowered and they don't even need to cost you any money. Simply taking a bit of time out for a walk or some form of exercise will go a long way to relieving stress. Yoga is probably one of the best forms of exercise to relieve stres...

If you have an anger problem it is advisable to avoid confrontations as far as possible when you know that you will lose control of your temper. There are certain areas where people are more prone to anger than others. A good example is when a group of people begin discussing their local or national governments and politics. Many participants in such a discussion take everything that is said personally and this can cause a confrontation and the anger can be sparked off. Before you know it you have a violent situation on hand. Avoid discussing subjects with your colleagues that you know will become confrontational. If you cannot avoid where the discussion is going rather leave the room so that you will not become part of where the conversation is going. Learn to know yourself and your anger level. Avoid places where you know there will be confrontations. Do not set yourself up for unnecessary arguments which will lead to your anger taking over the situation. You can constantly be workin...

Some people act out anger feelings by attacking, or trying to control. (Aggressive) while others use addictions to avoid their feelings. (Dependant-Addicted). Another option is that some people become introverted and depressed.(Depressive) There are different ways people feel anger. Usually your body will tell you when you are angry. Are you breathing faster? Is your face bright red? Are your muscles tense and your fists clenched tight? Do you want to break something or hit someone? Anger can make you yell or scream at those around you, even people you like or love. Some people keep their anger buried deep inside. If you do this, you might get a headache or your stomach might start to hurt. You may just feel crummy about yourself or start to cry. It's not good to hide your anger, so you should find a way to let it out without hurting yourself or others. Angry people tend to demand things: fairness, appreciation, agreement, willingness to do things their way. Everyone wants these th...

Why do I think life is easy? Because it is easy, how could I? while there are bunch of trouble in life, there are so many things to spend, gosh…so many things to solve, no one care of our problem… hhhhhhh Well the only problem that makes our life seems so hard is our passions, don't we deserve to have passion(s)? The answer is obviously yes… no doubt about it… even more "we must have passion(s)", so how can our passions make our life hard? Because it's too much…. Yes it is too much passions in our head…. Try to loose some of them, then make an appropriate filter to the rest of them, why should filter? cause there are still a few points which can be eliminated from the rest of passions we have subtracted. It sounds loosing hope? not really... this will ease our self, it is ok if we wish make it grow by the time, but remember filter it. Yes we only life once, make it all in our life but we only have two hands to our momentum. Well it's all yours...